The aure jam'iyya: da cewa dalilin?

Fi dacewa, a cikin zuciya na aure ya kamata a dogara ne a kan soyayya na biyu mutane ga juna. Amma wannan ba ko da yaushe haka al'amarin. Akwai sauran dalilai da suka haddasa wani mutum da wata mace shiga cikin aure.
Alal misali, sanannun psychologist Myuriel Dzheyms bambanta da dama iri aure: aure for soyayya, romantic aure, aure na saukaka, mai amfani-friendly Union da kuma bude aure.
Duk da wannan aure m yana da kawai ya muhimmi dalilai.

Soyayya-wasa
Yana da cikakken aure, wanda ta dogara ne a kan soyayya na biyu mutane ga juna, girmama juna da kuma fahimtar. Tare da irin wannan karfi da kafuwar soyayya aure yana da dukan chances na tsawon rai. Ko da yake, kamar duk sauran iri kungiya ta kashin, shi ne kuma batun gwaji da kuma iyali crises, wanda suke makawa ko da a cikin mafi karfi iyalansu.

Aure na saukaka
Wannan aure ya sosai prevalent a baya. Da fari dai, a cikin wannan kungiya ta kashin shiga wakilan sarauta iyalan: Kuma kamar wancan warware dynastic da kuma matsalolin siyasa.
Financial dogaro da mata daga mijinta ma ya kai ga cewa wani aure na saukaka a baya ya kasance da na kowa. Ko da yake a halin yanzu fansa da mace 'yancin kai kaya irin kungiya ta kashin ba su da wani abu rare.
Dalili na wani aure na saukaka iya karya da kuma mutum so ya rabu da mu Loneliness, fita daga karkashin parental kula, don su iya kula da wani da jin kula da wani ƙaunar daya.
Ba za mu iya ce cewa irin wannan aure wanzuwa ga wani gajeren rayuwa. Duk da yake kirga oparvdyvaetsya aure yana. Bugu da kari, akwai ko da yaushe wani yiwuwar cewa lissafi za su yi girma a cikin wani abu more ...

romantic aure
Irin wannan aure da aka gina a kan so, soyayya, idealization na abokin tarayya. Amma, kamar yadda muka gani da masana ilimin tunani na, tare da chikin bege cewa shi ne short-rayu, da kuma tushe ne niƙẽwa aure. A farko matsala na irin wannan aure fara sha bayan da gudun amarci, a lokacin da na farko soyayya kafa da kuma zo yau da kullum.

bude aure
Members na wannan wata jam'iyya ba da'awar da manufa na auren mace daya. Sunã halattar da kansu da sadarwa abokin a gefe.
Dukansu maza ya gamsu, tun ba su yi la'akari da wannan hali ya canja. Babban abu ne cewa maza suna da mai juyayi, da sauran - wucin gadi sabon abu, amma yana taimaka wa brighten sama rayuwa, da kuma yin shi da wani iri-iri.

m Union
Friendship, kowa bukatun da juna vzaimonimanie underlie wannan aure. Irin wannan ƙawance ne mafi halayyar ga tsofaffi.