BDSM yi: da m da kuma rinjaye a jima'i

Rinjaye a jima'i - wani abokin tarayya wanda yake a cikin cajin. Ya na fitad da kuma mamaye. A ra'ayi zo mana daga irin wannan jima'i kwarara kamar yadda BDSM. A mutum wanda yana bukatar a mamayar da su a cikin wannan jima'i yi ne ake kira m.

Mene ne BDSM?

BDSM - wannan subculture, wanda yana nufin Psycho-jima'i irin. Ga can authoritativeness batsa wasanni tare da mika wuya da kuma mamayar.

Raguwa BDSM tsaye ga:

• barance da kuma horo.
• dominance da sallamãwa.
• sadism da masochism.

Babban ka'idodinta BDSM:

• tsaro.
• reasonableness.
• da son rai.

Wannan aka nuna a cikin acronym SSC, wanda yake a halin yanzu irin harshe na dabam:

• lafiya;
• haukata.
• da samun izini.

Mutane da yawa BDSM hade tare da zafi da wulãkanci, amma wannan ba ko da yaushe haka al'amarin. Alal misali, magoya na database (shroud da kuma mamayar) soyayya kangi da igiyoyi dauri, watau cikakken ko m ƙuntatawa na motsi rinjaye abokin tarayya a cikin jima'i.

By da BDSM category ma ya hada da rawar-Playing game, dangane da ilimi. Ga misali: Janar kiwata Woman recruits, m malami azabta dalibi, Dean son ya fitar da cikin dalibi.

SM (sadomasochism) - a yi hade da Haddasa na zafi. Magoya SM yi na yin amfani da zafi da kakin zuma, bulala, abubuwa, ya doke halin yanzu, da kuma sauran abubuwa da suka haddasa voluptuous gari.

Psychologists ce cewa so su yi biyayya da kwayoyin asalinsu. A zamanin da, rayuwar yau da kullum an hade tare da m hatsarori. A jikin m mutane amfani da m saki da danniya hormone - adrenaline. Times canja da waɗanda wanda kwayoyin memory karfi bukatar cika ta hanyar da ya burge jima'i.

Waɗanne halayen da ake bukata domin samun rinjaye jima'i?

Partners bambanta a jima'i wasanni matsayin. Rinjaye a jima'i na iya zama wani mutum da wata subwoofer - mace. Sai suka canzawa matsayin. Karva dole ne mallaki wasu halaye.

Ya za a iya amincewa da su. Tun da m ba da kansa gaba daya a cikin hannun Mr. sa'an nan tsakanin biyu ya zama cikakkiyar amincewa.

M. A da rinjaye ya zama mai karfi da nufi da kai girma. Ya san kansa daraja, yarda da kai dole ne mabuwayi. Idan zurfin da rinjaye rai sosai rauni, kuma bai yi ĩmãni da kanka, sa'an nan a kan lokaci shi zai fara furta kansu a kudi na subwoofer, kuma shi ne da mummunar. A wannan yanayin, da rinjaye abokin ba zai ci gaba da cewa yi masa biyayya.

Hikima. Mutumin da yayi a kan wani gagarumar rawar, ya zama a shirye domin ganin cewa ya za a warware ba kawai matsaloli, amma subwoofer. Hikimar - ne da ikon amfani da ilmi to warware takamaiman matsaloli.

Kamunkai. Ya kamata mu zama da karfi rinjaye juyayi tsarin. Idan ba ka so, kasancewa a cikin rawar da m, tare da rashin biyayya ga ciwon iska tare da smashing na crockery da ingratiating whining, tabbatar da cewa ka da abokin tarayya mai karfi ciki core. Ko da muni, idan Monsieur zai zama m psyche, kuma ya "ba da gangan" karya ku da wasu hakarkarinsa.

Ability don magana kuma ku saurara. BDSM yi ya shafi m sadarwar abokan. Rinjaye bukatar sauraron bawa, to akalla kada ku miss da tasha kalmomi. Suna amfani da su ubangijina tsaya a lokacin, idan wani abu ya faru.

namiji dominance

Mutane da yawa maza a ran dayansu, suka subconsciously dubi mace a matsayin ganima. Ka tuna, da yadda suke son su kalle 'yan mata a high sheqa. Mata qwai sheqa siga da kuma kafa reshe kama wani doki, barewa, da na awaki. Watau da dabba, wanda za ka iya hau su, kuma wanda za a iya farauta.

Male rinjaye jima'i - wannan shi ne mai matukar rare zaɓi, amma addini shi a matsayin wani zabin BDSM kawai in har masu tarawar yarda. Bayan biyayya ga jima'i - shi ne shaidar dogara da kuma girmamawa. A abokin ya amince da namiji magabaci, kuma ta haka shi ya nuna shigewa. Sabmassiv gaba daya ba a cikin hannãyenku daga cikin rinjaye. Man-saman da aka wuce yarda da farawa, ina so in dauki mace imperiously, sa'an nan hugged ta, dumi da kuma barci tare.

Mace rinjaye jima'i

Dominance a yin jima'i - shi ne ba kawai da BDSM ayyuka. Mace mamayar za a iya bayyana a wata mafi proactive ra'ayi a lokacin da lady daukan al'amura cikin nasa hannun, da kuma mutumin da aka wasa da ta dokoki.

Idan kana sha'awar da wannan salon na hali, sa'an nan magana da abokin tarayya. Dominance - yana da ba ko da yaushe wuya BDSM da bulala a wani fata kaya. Yarinya rinjaye a jima'i za a iya ado a yadin da aka saka tufafi, da kuma maimakon kangi amfani da siliki Scarves.

statistics BDSM

Bisa kididdigar da, fiye da 40% na ma'aurata a duniya suna aikatawa BDSM. Haka kuma, sun yi shi a kai a kai. Bayan duk, jima'i wasanni tare da kangi ko kawai mare a kan Paparoma a lokacin jima'i - shi riga nasa ne da BDSM yi. Haifar da ainihin jiki zafi yi ba fiye da 3% tururi. A wannan yanayin, 33% na maza kamar ne marinjãya a jima'i ne a mace, 48% na maza son canja matsayin, da kuma kawai 18% ji dadin kasancewa saman. Mata sukan fi son biyayya (75%). Kawai 25% so ya zama farka.