Bukatun da ba'a so

Kowannenmu a cikin rayuwa akwai sha'awar da ba a yarda da shi ba. Unsatisfied zũciyõyinsu sau da yawa suna sa mutane su nemi matsaloli a cikin waje data, hali dabiu , da sauransu. Wannan zai iya taimaka musu su gane wasu rashin kuskure, amma, a gefe guda, saboda rashin hankali da kansu, rashin jin daɗin sha'awa zai haifar da zurfin zurfin rashin ƙarfi.
M ji na rashin biyan bukata reinforces sha'awar irin wannan fasali kamar reverie: "Ina so in zama farka daga cikin teku, da kuma umartarku da wani kifin zinari." Mawuyaci da rabuwa daga gaskiyar yana ƙaruwa a cikin dukkanin motsin zuciyarmu mara kyau. Mahimmanci da ba daidai ba tunanin ya ɓata tunani. Kuma cutar daga mafarki shine: rashin daidaituwa da gaskiya tare da mafarkai na haifar da rashin tausayi, bakin ciki. Idan mutum ya fara sa ran da zai faru da kwarewa mai zuwa, to ya raunana yardar da zai samu daga wani abu na ainihi (bayanan, fim din na kallon karo na biyu bai zama mai ban sha'awa ba kamar yadda na farko).
Har ila yau, yana ƙarfafa jin daɗin sha'awar da ba a cika ba, da rashin sanin sha'awar sha'awa. Wasu lokuta wani mutum yana jin dadi mai ma'ana, amma wannan yakan haifar da rashin tausayi, wanda ba mu gane ba. Kuma idan aka gane, to, vaguely - yana da mu kuma yana kaiwa ga rashin tsoro. Hanya mafi kyau don inganta halinka a cikin wannan yanayin shine don gane bukatunku.
Muna buƙatar mu tambayi kanmu tambayoyin kuma muyi ƙoƙarin ba mu kanmu mai mahimmanci. Idan kun fuskanci wahalar, kuma kuna jin cewa wannan zai iya zama saboda sha'awar da ba a yarda ba, ku tambayi kanku waɗannan tambayoyin. Menene bukatun na so (ko so / buƙata) in gamsu cikin wannan aikin (aikin, abubuwan da suka faru, sadarwa)? Irin waɗannan bukatun na iya kasancewa bukatan girma (sanarwa, amincewa), sadarwa, ilimin da ya dace. Abin farin ciki ne na lura dashi daga yin wannan aikin (kulawa, kula, taimako, yarda, tausayi)? Ko kuma: wane irin rashin jin dadin rayuwa nake so in rabu da mu? Alal misali, ina kishin ma'aikaci mai cin nasara. Ina bukatan magana akan wannan, kuma ba tare da kowa ba. A wannan yanayin, zan zama da jin dadi ba kawai tare da kishi ba, amma har da sha'awar da ba a so in yi farin ciki, amma idan na gane abin da bai kamata in gamsu ba kuma musamman abin da zan yi tsammani daga mai ba da shawara, kuma zai zama sauƙi a gare ni. Wajibi ne muyi la'akari da halin wasu mutane da kuke tsammani daga gare su kuma hakan zai wadatar da sha'awarku. Menene muhimmancin waɗannan ayyukan a gare ku, menene sakamakon su? Wadanne wasu zaɓuɓɓuka akwai abin da bukatunku zasu yi? Me yasa kake tsammanin wannan mutumin ko wadannan yanayi shine mafi kyawun gamsar da sha'awar?
Idan ka rubuta amsoshin waɗannan tambayoyin a rubuce, zai zama mafi kyau fiye da tunani kawai. Ƙarin cikakken cikakken amsar kowane tambaya zai kasance, mafi kyau. Wannan zai taimaka wajen cire matsananciyar jihar da aka jefa ku cikin sha'awar da ba a yarda ba. Kuma kada ku manta da cewa tsabtace tunani, lokacin da aka "kaddamar da dukkan abubuwa", kuma tunaninsa yana karkashin iko, shine mafi kyawun kare kariya ga duk wani nau'i. Sa'a mai kyau!