Rashin libido - yana da gaske matsalar?

Da farko, bari ta ayyana "libido" da lokaci. Saboda haka, abin da yake da shi? Sai dai itace cewa da asalin da aka zamar masa dole marubucin Zygmunt psychoanalysis zuwa Freud, a cikin aikinsa, ya mamaye a tsakiyar matsayi. Ya kammala da cewa libido - wani irin muhimmanci da makamashi, wanda tushen ne da za a samu a cikin jima'i. A gaskiya, yana da guda a matsayin jima'i drive a wani gida da hankali.

Rubuce, idan muka bi Freud, da libido ne a so, janye, so, wanda manufa - to kai da yardarSa. A samar da makamashi na libido, canjawa daga erogenous zones, da kayyade lokaci na cigaban dan Adam. Freud kidaya biyar daga cikinsu:

1. Daga haihuwa zuwa shekara guda - baka mataki.
2. Daga shekara guda zuwa shekaru uku - da tsuliya mataki.
3. Uku zuwa biyar shekaru - da phallic mataki.
4. Daga biyar zuwa goma sha biyu shekara - da latent mataki.
5. Daga goma sha biyu zuwa shekara goma sha takwas da haihuwa - da al'aura mataki.

Kuma Freud ya warai gamsu da cewa a take hakkin libido kafa shafi tunanin mutum da cuta, amma a cikin shakka daga bincike tabbatar da amincewa da aka iske ba.

A fahimtar Gustva Carl Jung, da libido - mai qwaqwalwa ne qwarai mutum makamashi a matsayin dukan. Yanã ciyarwa libido kama da Qi makamashi , ko prana, muhimmi a gabas.

Modern sexologists yi imani da cewa libido - sha'awar jima'i kawance, wanda aka dauke al'ada ga duk mutanen da suka isa mafarki ba. Its samuwar fara a cikin shimfiɗar jariri da katin shaida na wani yaro na jinsi da kuma zuwa cikakken jima'i balaga, wucewa duk da tsaka-tsaki, saukarwa, kamar platonic soyayya, na batsa kwarewa. Balagagge libido na biyu mata da maza - ne tsantsa na romance, alfasha da kuma jima'i daidai da halayyarsu da mutum hali.

Abubuwan da ta da, kuma ka runtse ga libido

Tun libido - shi ne jima'i so, maimakon zalla jiki ruri, da tsanani dogara a kan al'amurra da dama. Bisa ga American sexologists, adversely shafi libido ne wasu muhimman dalilai wanda zai iya kuma dole ne a yi yaƙi. Saboda haka, idan rasa libido, shi zai iya zama saboda:

• Rayuwa - shi ne mai real matsala ga mutane da yawa, saboda wani mutum ya cika da masu niyyar baftisma cikin kula da wani iyali gidan, a cikin sana'a nauyi, kuma lokaci ne, wani lokacin sorely rasa ko da mafarki. Sexologists rika a irin haka ne, ci gaba da kalanda don tsara jima'i, ko idan ta iya ze m, amma zai taimaka shirya da damunsu juna jima'i laifukan, da kuma daga baya bukatar shi zai bace.
• Danniya, da tsoro, tashin hankali. A wannan jiha, mutum na jima'i da kuma bai manta. A wannan yanayin, kada samun gidan ya toshe a cikin "rafta" bukatar sadarwa, ci gaba da kanka kwarewa ne tsananin haramta.
• Rashin nishaɗi, monotony. A ji cewa dangantaka da kanta ne gama na tafke sarai da kuma hade takaici za a iya shafe ta da taimakon sabon abubuwan a gado. M tattaunawa a kan topic na jima'i zũciyõyinsu tare da abokin tarayya, wani hadin gwiwa na binciken asirin Kama Sutra.Wani zai koma ga alama waning jima'i sha'awa cikin juna.

Rage libido a maza

Sau da yawa sosai, namiji libido shan wahala daga m dalilai. Kwanan nan, sexologists ce karu a jima'i so a cikin matasa, maza da lafiya. A dalilin wannan ne sau da yawa banal ba daidai ba da kafuwa, kallafaffen tun suna yara, iyaye, misali, da wajibi don haifar da abu alheri ga makomar da iyali, aiki ci gaba da kuma kama. Wannan asusun ga matasa don sa duk da kokarin a kan nasara da "girma" manufa, yana daukan shekaru, sun iya zauna da farin ciki a aure.

Maza mãsu yawa mafi kusantar su da kullum gajiya, danniya da kuma related ciki, wanda zai iya haifar da wani karin amfani da barasa da kwayoyi, ta hanyar, dogon lokacin da amfani da marijuana damuarn samar da maniyyi. Wani lokaci cikin hanyar low libido iya zama wani jerin jima'i blunders. Babu shakka, babban tasiri da kuma Physiology, cewa shi ne, matakin testosterone.

Yadda za a magance matsalar?

1. Fara ci kullum, kada ka manta game da 'ya'yan itatuwa da kayan lambu, kazalika da namiji aphrodisiacs.
2. Cinye abinci tare da babban abun ciki na tutiya - a yi abu dole ga testosterone kwayoyin.
3. Awowi takwas, daga barci a cikin wani duhu da kuma m dakin - wannan yanayin ga al'ada hormone samar.
4. Ba lallai ba ne ya zama himma da barasa, musamman giya, wanda yake shi ne mai arziki a cikin phytoestrogens - analogues na mace ji ba gani.