Abin da shi ne abu mai kyau, mai kyau hali? Son kai da kuma sadaukarwa

Kowane mutum akalla sau daya a rayuwarsu mamaki game da abin da shi ne abu mai kyau, mai kyau hali. Hakika, wannan za a iya amsa a hanyoyi daban-daban, amma duk da mutane fahimci cewa mai kyau hali - shi ne wani aiki a cikin bukatun da wani mutum. A cikin wannan labarin, za mu bincika biyu kawai zai yiwu muhimmai daga ayyukan ƙwarai: sadaukarwa da son kai. Bari mu fara da bayyane, kuma kasa daraja, tare da egoism.

Son kai a matsayin dalilin ayyukan ƙwarai

Zai ze wani paradox da Wauta, amma a mafi yawan lokuta shi ne. Akwai a cikin wannan ma'ana da labarin, kusan wani misãli, amma shi ya dauki wani real tarihi adadi - Abraham Lincoln.

Da zarar Lincoln aka hawa a karusa da daya jami'in, da kuma suka jayayya game da halin kirki Dalili na mutum hali. The hukuma da'awar cewa kafuwar duk - sadaukarwa, da kuma Lincoln ya hakikance cewa, son kai.

Rayuwa da aka yi hukunci a Debaters: kocin bi ta kogin a kan wata gada, kuma ba zato ba tsammani da shugaban kasar Amurka ya ga wani alade makale a cikin laka a kan kogin banki, kusa da ruwa, watau, shi yana cikin hadari ... The ruwan sama da aka fadowa. Lincoln tsalle mike a cikin kwat da wando a karkashin ruwan sama da kuma ajiye wani alade, ja da shi daga laka da kuma jan dabba a cikin wani wuri. Kwat da wando washe amma farin ciki Lincoln koma ga karusa. The jami'in gaya masa cewa ya kawai hana kansa ra'ayi. "Me ya sa?" - ya mamaki da shugaban kasar Amurka. "Me ya sa, ka ajiye alade, kuma ku amfana daga gare ta ba wani!" - da shawarar hukuma. "A maimakon haka, idan na bai cece ta, shi ba zai iya ba da shi ba gafarta," - tuni Lincoln.

Tunani game da shi nan, abin da yake mai kyau abu, mai kyau hali.

Misali a lokacin da miliyoyi da sadaka wani ɓangare na da babban birnin kasar zuwa rashin lafiya yara, kamar yadda ya fassara? Kuma idan sun haka ne ma cire kamara, an rubuta su a cikin jaridu? Mẽne ne - a PR ko wani abu mai kyau?

Kuma ko da idan ba wanda ya sani game da kyaututtuka na arziki, watakila yana ciwo da lamiri ko shi otmalivaet zunubanku? Yadda duk wannan selflessly?

Yana da kullum ban sha'awa a cikin wannan ma'ana, tunani game da abin da shi ne abu mai kyau, mai kyau hali a guda, musamman harka.

Sadaukarwa spodvigaet tsarkaka da kuma aljanna-labari heroes aikata ayyukan ƙwarai,

Ayyukan ƙwarai, kuma ayyukan da tsarki, uncomplicated sadaukarwa iya kawai tsarkaka da kuma aljanna-labari haruffa. Kuma babu wani abu m ga talakawa jama'a, wanda, da kuma shi ne, misali, a miliyoniya, a matsayin saint - shi ne wanda ya ya shawo kan mũnãnan ayyuka na dabi'ar mutum da kuma kusa da bil'adama akida. A mafi daukan hankali misali a cikin wannan ma'ana, ba shakka, Iisus Hristos. Idan muka dubi tarihin, shi ne Mat Tereza ko Mahatma Gandhi. Su selflessly bauta wa mutane.

Lokacin da mafi yawan mutane tunani game da wadannan heroes - al'adu mamaki na tarihin duniya, akwai wani tambaya game da abin da shi ne abu mai kyau, mai kyau hali, domin amsar ne bayyananne: a sadaukarwa saboda kiwon lafiya da kuma farin ciki na wasu.

A cikin fim Aleksandra Rou "Frost", dangane da Rasha jama'a tãtsũniyõyin ma da wani misali na wani gaba daya sadaukarwa yi, a lokacin da canza kama zuwa beyar, Ivan yanke shawarar kai tsõhuwa mata sanda. Hero ba tare da wani "na biyu tunani" yanke shawarar yin aiki nagari, wanda shi ne abin da aka bukata daga gare shi Old Man Naman kaza, contact narcissistic saurayi a bear.

A wasu kalmomin, da misalai da labarai nace cewa abu mai kyau ko mai kyau hali ne kawai zai yiwu a lokacin da wani mutum yayi watsi da mutum, na sirri bukatun da tunani ne kawai game da walwala da kuma farin ciki, ta'aziyya wani mutum. A ban mamaki manufa, ya aikata ba haka ba?

Amma idan muka juya zuwa ga kula da harkokin mu na bakin ciki, shi dai itace cewa ba haka ba ne mai muhimmanci, daga abin da shi yana karɓa mai kyau tushen abubuwan gina jiki (sadaukarwa ko son kai). Babban abu da cewa shi ne mai girma da kuma samun ƙarfi. Kuma mutanen da ba su manta da cewa, ban da su, duniya ne matalauta da marasa lafiya da suka gaske bukatar taimako.